The weight issue others have commented on and I agree with them so that is all I'll say on that.
Now with the father thing I can relate to what your saying and I can agree totally with what your doing about it. I haven't seen my father for 19 years my older brother hasn't seen him for even longer but my younger sister keeps hounding us that we must get in touch with him simply because he's our father. I won't go into the details but it's like you said we don't like the person he's become and don't need that in our lives.
I wish your trip to go painlessly for the wedding/family stuff and that you have loads of fun afterwords.
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branchandroot
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Date: 2004-09-27 04:37 am (UTC)Now with the father thing I can relate to what your saying and I can agree totally with what your doing about it. I haven't seen my father for 19 years my older brother hasn't seen him for even longer but my younger sister keeps hounding us that we must get in touch with him simply because he's our father. I won't go into the details but it's like you said we don't like the person he's become and don't need that in our lives.
I wish your trip to go painlessly for the wedding/family stuff and that you have loads of fun afterwords.