But Harry Potter's subtext was "anyone can be special with the help of their friends" where as this is "it doesn't matter what he does if you were meant to be together".

She literally has "no life" without her sparklepire - do you remember "I was like a lost moon--my planet destroyed in some cataclysmic, disaster-movie scenario of desolation--that continued, nevertheless, to circle in a tight little orbit around the empty space left behind, ignoring the laws of gravity.

Any hypothetical daughter of mine said that and she'd be in therapy faster than you can say "dazzle"!